Just a quick check in...
Wednesday, April 29, 2009
Wednesday Hello
Posted by Unknown at 7:38 AM 9 comments
Labels: Silly Things I Do
Monday, April 27, 2009
Glatitude
They say imitation is the best form of flattery. Gretchen should be flattered.
Posted by Unknown at 6:33 AM 14 comments
Labels: Glatitude
Saturday, April 25, 2009
Illegal Blogging
This is me, doing what I should be doing right now.
Posted by Unknown at 11:27 AM 16 comments
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Where in the World is CoffeeGal going?
In one week from this very moment, I should be boarding an aircraft for the top secret location. Flying in for a weekend retreat with my old Moms' Group.
Posted by Unknown at 7:46 AM 23 comments
Labels: Mom's Group, Texas, Travel
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
iPod Meme
I don't know if you have seen this meme or not, but I have to tell you it had me laughing yesterday afternoon as I prepared for this post.
A Meme for your iPod
Instructions:
1. Put your iPod (or MP3 player) on shuffle.
2. For each question, press the next button to get your answer.
3. YOU MUST WRITE THAT SONG NAME DOWN AS YOUR ANSWER, NO MATTER HOW SILLY IT SOUNDS!
4. Tag some Moms you admire who could use a laugh and a song.
HOW DID YOU BECOME A MOM?
I Feel for You (Chaka Khan)
WHAT DID YOU THINK THE FIRST TIME YOU SAW YOUR BABY?
A Heart Like Mine (Bryan Duncan)
WHAT DID YOU DO THE FIRST MORNING AFTER A SLEEPLESS NIGHT?
I Need the Every Hour (Amy Grant & Vince Gill)
WHAT DO YOU SAY WHEN SOMEONE COLORS ON THE WALL?
It Takes Two (Zac Efron: Hairspray)
HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH A TODDLER’S BODILY FLUID ISSUES?
The Way He Was Raised (Josh Turner)
IF SOMEONE SAYS “Can I have a snack?” YOU SAY?
You’ll Be There (Cindy Morgan)
IF SOMEONE LEAVES THEIR STUFF ON THE FLOOR, YOU SAY?
Sangria (Relaxing Guitar Solo)
IF SOMEONE ISN’T SICK TODAY, YOU SAY?
What A Friend We Have in Jesus (Amy Grant)
HOW DO YOUR KIDS ENJOY YOUR COOKING?
Will You Still Love Me (Relaxing Guitar Solo)
HOW DID YOUR KIDS DO IN SCHOOL TODAY?
Run and Tell That (Hairspray)
WHAT DO YOU THINK OF WHILE SITTING IN CARPOOL LINE?
Through Every Season ( Guitar solo)
HOMESCHOOLERS, WHAT IS THE FIRST SUBJECT TAUGHT OF THE DAY?
Walk Away (Tony Moran)
WHAT DO YOUR KIDS WANT TO BE WHEN THEY GROW UP?
Where I Wanna Be (V*Enna)
WHAT WOULD BEST DESCRIBE YOUR PERSONALITY AS A MOM?
Soulmate ( Josh Turner)
WHAT IS YOUR LIFE’S PURPOSE AS A MOM?
The Sweet Escape (Gwen Stefani)
WHAT IS YOUR MOTTO AS A MOM?
Come So Far, Got So Far to Go (Hairspray)
HOW DID YOU KNOW YOU WERE REALLY A MOM?
Come Thou Font Of Every Blessing (Chris Rice)
WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT MOST OFTEN AS A MOM?
Baby, I Go Crazy (Josh Turner)
WHAT IS YOUR LIFE STORY AS A MOM?
What You Already Own (Amy Grant)
WHAT IS THE ONE THING YOU REGRET AS A MOM?
The Longer The Waiting (The Sweeter the Kiss) (Turner)
WHAT IS THE BEST THING YOU’VE EVER DONE AS A MOM?
Moment to Moment (Guitar Solo)
WHAT DO YOUR KIDS DO THAT MAKES YOU LAUGH?
If You See Him, If You See Her (Reba)
WHAT DO YOUR KIDS DO THAT MAKES YOU CRY?
Everything is Fine (Josh Turner)
WHAT DO YOUR KIDS DO THAT SCARES YOU THE MOST?
Little Did I Know (Barlow Girl)
HOW DO YOUR KIDS DESCRIBE YOU AS THEIR MOM?
This is My Fathers World ( Amy Grant)
IF YOU COULD GO BACK IN TIME, WHAT WOULD YOU CHANGE?
Never Look Back (Guitar solo)
WHAT WILL YOUR MOM OF THE YEAR CERTIFICATE SAY?
Have a Nice Day (Bon Jovi)
Tag...you're it!
Posted by Unknown at 3:32 AM 9 comments
Labels: meme
Tuesday, April 21, 2009
What I Have Learned This Week: Coffee Punch
Ingredients
- 1/4 cup sugar
- 6 cups hot brewed coffee
- 1/2 gallon vanilla ice cream
- 1/2 gallon chocolate ice cream
- 1/2 to 3/4 cup coffee liqueur
- Toppings: whipped cream, chocolate syrup
Preparation
Stir together sugar and hot coffee until sugar dissolves. Cover and chill mixture 30 to 45 minutes.
Spoon ice cream into a large punch bowl. Pour coffee mixture over ice cream; stir in coffee liqueur. Serve with desired toppings.
Note: For testing purposes only, we used hazelnut coffee. Makes 23 cups.
Southern Living, MARCH 2001
Posted by Unknown at 7:18 AM 17 comments
Labels: What I Have Learned This Week
Monday, April 20, 2009
Coffee Gal Calling Back: Be Intentional
Well, its Friday Monday, and I am getting this post out late because sometimes life catches you by surprise...and deadlines become moot.
Anyway, today is the first installment in the CoffeeGal: Calling Back series.
Its been hard to think about where to start, so let's start at the very beginning.....(Go ahead Tiffany...sing away girl).
I've always been a "romantic" domestic. I have always loved the idea of staying home, raising kids, keeping house. I dreamed of sleeping babies; delicious homemade dinners; obedient children; lovely parties set in a clean, home decorated by Pottery Barn...
However, I couldn’t ever get my ideas and reality to matchup in those early baby years.
This was (is) especially true when I compared myself to others who seemed to live their lives seamlessly.
There came a point in my life (soon after child #2 was born) when I began to get a hunch that the appearance of having it all together didn't really indicate reality.
So I began to look around and really observe the women around me who were exceptional homemakers, wives, mothers and friends. After almost a year, I came to an interesting conclusion.
The women I observed were independently different: Some had lots of money, some had none. Some had an eye for decor, some didn’t. Some had amazing organizational skills, others had to work at them. Each were uniquely gifted, but these ladies all had one very important thing in common:
They were all intentional.
Intentional with their time.
Intentional in their relationships.
Intentional with their words.
Intentional with their homes.
Intentional in pursuit of the Lord.
These women were intentional in the way they went about their lives. They had a sense of purpose. In this way it didn't really matter how their homes were decorated, or how yummy the dinner tasted. What mattered is that you left their home feeling like you didn't really want to leave.
It was then that I decided this was the key: Don't be worried about what you don't have but be intentional with what you've got.
So, I looked around at what I had and decided to go from there. We had just purchased our first house, a modest home (with horrendous pink carpet), a sweet little family and a handful of friends and neighbors that I loved. I had used furniture, a small backyard, and heart that was willing.
With these in hand, I realized that my wants weren't all that sophisticated.
In a chaotic world, I wanted my home to be peaceful. I wanted my home to be a place that my family could relax. A place the The Mister would look forward to coming home to at night.
I wanted those who visited my home to feel like they could come and be at ease; to take their shoes off and have a soft place to land.
This was where my first steps in being intentional took place.
Running a household and being domestic doesn't come from being particularly gifted, or talented or self-disciplined. It isn’t from having an eye for decor, or a well padded budget. Being hospitable and running a home stems from a desire to be intentional with the things that God has purposed me to do, and with the desires of my heart.
I couldn’t start CoffeeGal: Calling Back without being clear about my humble beginnings. In part because there are a few of you who read this blog that lived those early years with me...as we stumbled (and sometimes failed) together trying to figure it all out...but i also want to start in this place because living isn’t just about a beautiful home and cute kids. Its about actively, purposefully, intentionally pursuing the desires of my heart.
Even when sometimes they don’t look exactly how I thought it would...
Being intentional isn’t about getting your way, or forcing your hand. Its all about clearly setting about something you desire to do, or have, or be.
Being intentional has served me well in more than just housekeeping and hospitality. It has helped as we have moved from place to place; it has helped as I have raised my children; it has been pivotal in communication with that hunk of man I am privileged to call The Mister...My Mister. It has helped in long distant relationships, and most importantly in my pursuit of God.
With that said, next time I will write about how I decided to be intentional with the kids regarding Family Traditions...and how it turned out differently (but better!) than I thought it would.
La Vida Dulce!
Posted by Unknown at 9:42 PM 20 comments
Labels: Calling Back
Friday, April 17, 2009
Irony
Ok! I am laughing at the last post that got published...empty.
Posted by Unknown at 5:58 PM 8 comments
Labels: Silly Things I Do
Thursday, April 16, 2009
Inquiring Mind Wants To Know
It's been a while since I have done a Random Poll...
Posted by Unknown at 7:58 AM 26 comments
Labels: Random Poll
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
This is a Test
I am posting for the second time today. Which is rarely ever done around here. But its spring break so i am throwing caution to the wind.
I read a rumor that I might be able to post to the old blog from my cell phone. Which would be really cool. Especially since I will be travelling to four different states in the next four months. I love the idea of being able to post while waiting in the airport for a three hour lay over.
Currently, I am at home, sitting on my brown leather sofa, nursing a migraine, and "watching" Space Chimps with the kids.
I haven't struggled with migraine in over four years and now suddenly, I have had three in two months? Whats up with that?
Ok, I am going to try and post this and se if the rumor is true...
Posted by Unknown at 1:19 PM 10 comments
Thoughts on Homeschooling
I've only had half a cup of coffee this morning. So I can't be held responsible for the rest of this post.
Posted by Unknown at 8:03 AM 14 comments
Labels: homeschool
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
What I Have Learned This Week: Blog Friends Are People Too
Its Tuesday.
- Taking a blogging break is hard when writing is your means of connection. Not only with others, but that place within my heart that cannot be tapped with spoken word.
- Private journal writing will be ignored when the heart is disengaged, fed chocolate, and artificially pumped up with marathon re-runs of reality TV on the Oxygen channel. (It was a bit of difficult week emotionally {see this updated post}, made worse with hormones and a stash of Easter chocolate that I raided).
- Taking a weeks break made me understand the importance of relationships. Both those in-real-life, and those that are bonded through written word. The blogging community may seem intangible and "not real" to those who aren't in it. But when you really engage in the life of someone else, be it in-real-life or through the written world of a flesh-an-blood blogger, real community happens. For me, it has happened at just the right time, in just the right place.
- With that said, I learned that often times we don't get to choose what our close knit friends look like, where they live, or how often we get to see them face to face...but I've been given an opportunity through blogging to know people that really desire community and are willing to take a risk and participate in community where they can get it. Blogging has served a great purpose in my life-- one that looks completely different than what I thought it would, but is fulfilling nonetheless.
- This week I was surprised by, and learned from, loneliness. I missed the opportunities to encourage others in my online community...and the opportunity to be encouraged.
- And finally, all those judgmental thoughts I had years ago about people who meet people online has come to bite me in the butt. There is a generous handful of amazing women that are my dear friends here in Bloggerville. Checking in on their blogs, and reading their comments when they come to mine, is like meeting with dear neighbors for a chat in the cul-de-sac. Its different than any of the relationships that I have had, but, its also been a blessing, at times a lifeline, in this stage of life.
Posted by Unknown at 7:07 AM 21 comments
Labels: What I Have Learned This Week
Monday, April 13, 2009
Hello!
Posted by Unknown at 8:01 AM 14 comments
Labels: Easter 2009
Sunday, April 05, 2009
Bringing My heart Back to Him
(I will be unplugging this week in observance of Holy Week. I look forward to seeing what everyone has been up to next week. This is my prayer for this week.)
Man a Nothing
O LORD,
I am a shell full of dust,
but animated with an invisible rational soul
and made anew by an unseen power of grace;
Yet I am no rare object of valuable price,
but one that has nothing and is nothing,
although chosen of thee from eternity,
given to Christ, and born again;
I am deeply convinced
of the evil and misery of a sinful state,
of the vanity of creatures,
but also of the sufficiency of Christ.
When thou wouldst guide me I control myself,
When thou wouldst be sovereign I rule myself.
When thou wouldst take care of me I suffice myself.
When I should depend on thy providings I supply myself,
When I should submit to thy providence I follow my will,
When I should study, love, honour, trust thee, I serve myself;
I fault and correct thy laws to suit myself,
Instead of thee I look to a man's approbation,
and am by nature an idolator.
Lord, it is my chief design to bring my heart back to thee.
Convince me that I cannot be
my own God, or make myself happy,
nor my own Christ to restore my joy,
nor my own Spirit to teach, guide, rule me.
Help me to see that grace does this by providential affliction,
for when my credit is good thou dost cast me lower,
when riches are my idol thou dost wing them away,
when pleasure is my all thou dost turn it into bitterness.
Take away my roving eye, curious ear,
greedy appetite, lustful heart;
show me that none of these things
can heal a wounded conscience,
or support a tottering frame
or uphold a departing spirit.
Then take me to the cross and leave me there.
~From The Valley of Vision: A Collection of Puritan Prayers & Devotions
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Labels: unplugging
Saturday, April 04, 2009
Its Down
And now the hard work: Chopping it up and hauling it off.
Posted by Unknown at 11:33 AM 12 comments
Labels: The Mister
Thursday, April 02, 2009
Thursday Thirteen (Random Addition)
1. Its raining. Again. I am boycotting by getting back into my pajama's. I did shower and get my hair done, cause you never know when somebody will knock on your door. Even in the rain. Oh, and I also had to...
Posted by Unknown at 9:40 AM 13 comments
Labels: Thursday Thirteen
Wednesday, April 01, 2009
About Nothing Much
I am in the middle of cooking a very gourmet lunch: La Vida Dulce's Secret Recipe Chicken Noodle Soup.
Posted by Unknown at 12:47 PM 11 comments