It is so strange that a year ago this week the La Vida Family was making its trek from Arizona to North Carolina on the most recent of cross country moves.
Remember the guitar playing packing man? Or what I chose to assert my control over had to do immediately upon arrival?
Good times.
Its funny how looking back can bring memories in which the tough parts are shaded so only the happiest parts shine through.
I was looking through the archives trying to figure out what day exactly we had landed here in God's Country, and I was thinking about all the expectations I had upon my arrival.
I had plans.
Big plans.
I thought for sure I would get here and slide-on into life as it had been before.
Only things had changed.
Instead of teaching music three mornings a week. I was teaching full time in my dining-room-turned-school-house.
Instead of having time for the gym, and throwing lunches with beautifully set tables and sewing, or baking, and blogging, I was always playing catch-up. Never being able to get one step ahead.
I didn't feel like myself.
I was fighting against all that was different and new, but until recently I hadn't realized it.
Back in the day, when The Mister and I left for our first duty station 13 years ago, I was given a great piece of advice from a woman I greatly admired. She said, "Kellie, it takes a full year to get settled when you move somewhere new."
I have kept that little bit of advice in my pocket each time we have moved.
Every time I got lost. Every time I had to find a new doctor. Every time I had to memorize a new grocery store. Or meet a new friend. Or feel like I had no order in my life, I would remember that a year from now, all this crazy newness will feel like order again.
I didn't expect that to happen when I moved back to North Carolina. After all I was moving right back to the same neighborhood. The same street. The same house.
It should have been the same!
But it wasn't.
And now, sitting one year away, I'm glad.
Its different, but its so much better than what my limited vision could see.
Five hundred twenty-five thousand six hundred minutes....
One year.
Fully lived, one blessed change at a time, and I lived to tell about it.
Life is good.
Thursday, September 10, 2009
One Year
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Labels: The Move
Monday, September 15, 2008
Greetings from North Carolina!
Hello! Hello!
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Labels: North Carolina, The Move
Tuesday, September 09, 2008
Greetings From Nashville TN
Good Morning!
It's a fine morning here in Nashville. The sky is overcast and the air is cool, but nothing could dampen our spirits today!
Our long drives are over, and since we found out that our stuff won't be delivered until Friday (instead of tomorrow) we are going to take a little detour through the Smoky Mountains and take the kids to Dollywood!
I have been wanting to go there for a long time, so this little side trip is as much for me as it is for them.
Today we will drive 3 hours to Pigeon Forge and then on Thursday we will drive the short 4 (ish) hours to NC
On a different note, can I tell you how fun it has been to see all your encouraging comments at the end of each day?! Y'all are so fun and it's like you're traveling with me!
While we have enjoyed the beautiful scenery, we have also had a dose of reality. There is nothing more sobering than seeing a caravan of eight or more ambulance and utility trucks, headed to Louisiana and the Gulf states; to prepare for the next round of hurricane. It reminded us to pray for those who are in harms way.
Last thing, when we pulled into Nashville last night the sunset was incredible! It was to our back so when I looked in the rear view mirror it was spectacular! I wish I could have taken a picture!
Oh! And no matter how many times we cross the Mississippi River, it is always incredible. Especially with the city of Memphis on the other side!
OK, it's getting to be time to load up and get going. I pray that y'all are doing well!
La Vida Dulce!
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Labels: The Move
Saturday, September 06, 2008
Headed East
By the time this posts, we should be headed toward New Mexico.
I had so much in my head as to what I would write about this last day as a resident of this warm, desert town. I held in the floodgates that I won't be opened until I have the luxury of time on my own. Most likely that time will come on that first five minutes on the road, when the morning is still dark and the stars can be my cover.
I don't often like to cry in front of others when the grief is my own.
And yet, I know this isn't a goodbye forever. This truly is a "see you soon", since plans for a summer trip are already in the works.
I also look forward with great anticipation to our North Carolina home. It's smells, it's seasons, it's beautiful, soothing accent. I look forward to the greenery, and of course, above all things, seeing the friends we haven't seen face to face in 18 months.
We have much to look forward to. Much to be happy about!
I may be taking a blogging break while we are on the road. But then again, maybe not. We'll see...
I did want to tell you this funny story...
Upon packing our traveling bags I gave the kids list of what to pack, with strict instructions to pack one pair of tennis shoes and one pair of flip-flops. They weren't to pack anything extra, just what was on the list.
Last night as I was rechecking bags (we were at my mom's house for the night) and getting things ready to load in the car, I noticed that The Girl not only managed to pack flip-flops and tennis shoes, but stuffed in the bottom of the bag, were also a pair of brown sandals, sparkly pink slip on sandals and a sparkly handbag. She just couldn't be limited to two pairs of shoes, and she "always uses the sparkly handbag when she uses the sparkly shoes".
You know, that girl is a lot like her mother. I couldn't stick to my own list either...
All right, time to sign off on my last blog post west of the Mississippi...
To my Arizonian peeps: I miss you already!
"Say good things about me, Cuz I've gone to Carolina..."-James Taylor
La Vida Dulce
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Labels: The Desert Life, The Move
Thursday, September 04, 2008
Guitar Playing Packing Man
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Labels: guitar, The Desert Life, The Move
Wednesday, September 03, 2008
Burning Rubber
Actually, I am not burning rubber, but the packers who are packing up all nearly finished, and it's just now past 10am. By far, the quickest pack job we've had by far.
Of course when we moved here we got rid of half of what we owned because our house was 500 sq ft. smaller. Why we did that, I'm not sure, especially since we ended up with two completely empty rooms.
I must have been having one of my "cleaning fits".
Anyway, I am not actually at my house right now, but am waiting for the fine people at Discount Tires to replace my two front tires.
Uh, hello? 316 dollars didn't feel so discount, but what's a girl to do? And they aren't burning rubber. And I hate the smell of tires. But I'll stop complaining now.
I am hoping that they will hurry because I have to get home to say goodbye to Willie, our head packer. I hope to blog about him tomorrow because he is a neat guy in his fifties, with amazing talent.
So, that's today's news at the La Vida Household!
I hope you are having a fine Wednesday!
(Can you believe it's September? I went to the Starbucks this morning and they had their Pumpkin Latte posters all over the place! Let the fall begin!)
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Labels: stuff, The Desert Life, The Move
Tuesday, September 02, 2008
A very random "packing" post.
So, it's been a bit of a slow day until this very moment.
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Labels: The Move
Monday, September 01, 2008
The Fruits of My Labor!
Thanks so much for leaving me comments in the last post! It's fun to hear how y'all work the last minute grocery runs!
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Labels: haircuts and two eyebrows, on being a girl, The Move
Thursday, August 28, 2008
Coffee and Conversation
Last night Stephanie J and I met to have a coffee and tea together.
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Labels: friends, The Desert Life, The Move
Wednesday, August 27, 2008
Surprise!
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Labels: friends, The Desert Life, The Move
Tuesday, August 26, 2008
It's Raining, It's Pouring, Why Aren't I Snoring?
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Monday, August 25, 2008
The Ladies Who Lunch...uh, Dinner?
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Labels: friends, The Desert Life, The Move
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
Confessions of a Career Relocater
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Labels: organization, The Move
Tuesday, July 15, 2008
Movin' on Up, To The East Side...
...Of the Country.
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Labels: Arizona, everyday life, family, North Carolina, The Move
Thursday, March 01, 2007
Boxes
Whew!
I have just tucked the kids into bed. Or I should say, I have made them a nest of blankets and pillows on the floor of my bedroom. They are currently watching a movie on the portable DVD while The Mister studies and I try to get in some blogging before the internet is cut off.
Today was a tough day as my tender hearted children said goodbye to their teachers and friends at school. I want to write volumes about the teachers and the fine educators at our little school, but nothing I can write describes exactly how I feel, so for now I hope they know how much I appreciate them.
I am tired. Although I have not done much in the last 48 hours but watch strangers open up my cupboards and closets and, yes, the drawers i keep my "drawers" in...which is totally weird, no matter how many times you have experienced it.
It's always very strange to live and sleep in a house that is filled with boxes. Boxes that make up your life. I always get pensive at this time...do we really need all this stuff?
Of course this morning when I went to blow dry my hair the answer was a resounding "Yes"!
I spent all of today wanting to expose my hair insecurities by telling everyone the reason my hair looked so bad was because the movers packed my dryer. I managed to have some self control and only told one person. I told her partially because her hair looked so good, and I was feeling envious, but mostly because I am certain she understands the necessity of good hair.
Not only did i have to air dry (I ended up pulling it back into a ponytail...my "style" for the next week) but my roots are completely out of control. It just isn't right. I did however manage to "tame the brows" with a good waxing. So at least I will be able to see while I drive across the country.
On to things less hair related.
The update on Kona is that she and the White Haired Terrier have now become friends. Mom was a bit worried and I have to say I was worried about her. She called me last night to tell me that if the dogs (a.k.a. Kona) couldn't be nice to each other then she knew someone (who knew someone) who knows a specialist, that could teach the dogs to give the world a Coke and sing in har-mo-ny. But then when my Mom called this morning all was right in the world and the "kids" were wrestling and playing as if they had been long lost litter mates.
Seriously I am grateful for my Mom's care (and concern) for our pet and I am glad that my (sometimes not so) sweet, needy, dog is getting along just fine now with her new doggy friend...or would that be her doggy uncle? Oh y'all! it's getting late...and I am starting to scare myself.
Moving on....
This may be my last post for a couple days as we make our journey west. I hope to update and possibly get some pictures posted if we can get internet access as we travel.
Until then...
La Vida Dulce!
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Labels: The Move
Wednesday, February 21, 2007
Cleaning
Taking a quick break from frantic cleaning before our movers show up and haul everything away next week.
I just wanted to tell you that I think that Easy-Off (no fumes) oven cleaner and Mr. Clean Magic erasers are absolute M-I-R-A-C-L-E-S!!!!!
There is just something fabulous about spraying cleaner on the muck, waiting two hours, opening your oven and simply wiping away the mess....without having to scrub. If only everything in life was so easy!
La Vida Dulce!
Oh! I forgot to tell you that it is 69 degrees outside!!! I opened my window to let the fresh air in (to get rid of all those flu bugs my kids brought in this week) and guess what I felt for a few brief, delicious, moments...the hint of SPRING! Warm weather! Sweet smells! Sandals!
OK...I better go sit down.
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Labels: The Move
Thursday, February 15, 2007
Twelve Days
Posting twice in one day is insane. But I have had this idea in my head for the longest time. And it occurred to me that it has to start today or I won't have time to do what I want to do. In twelve days the movers start packing and then access to the computer will be cut off for awhile.
This week we started what I call the "Time of Goodbyes". This is the part of moving that I dread and love all at the same time.
I wanted to go through my pictures of the last year and pick a few that shows the beauty of this wonderful little town we have had the pleasure to live in. This is fun because it gives me some material to put on the old blog, and will also be fun for the family to look at later-when we want to remember the short time that we could talk with southern accents, catch lightnin' bugs, eat biscuits and drink sweet tea.
Each day there should be a new post. And today we will start with January 2006.
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